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Sep. 8th, 2012



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Hi and welcome to the NorthCarolitas community!

We have members all over the state with most of us residing in Charlotte and Raleigh, but we have meetups all over (Concord, Greensboro, Winston-Salem, Cary &c.)

Intro posts are welcome! If you've just moved here or never made a formal introduction feel free to do so at any time. We love meeting new friends. :)

We have a Facebook group for meeting planning, local news, chatter, and palling around. Membership is closed and you will need to request an invite. If your membership is pending approval, please send a note to any of the admins to introduce yourself and let us know why you'd like to be added (Why do you want to join the NC lolita community? How long have you been interested in lolita fashion? Are you a member of any other lolita/fashion communities?) Members should be from the Carolina region or planning to attend a meetup in the near future. We hope only lurkers are discouraged by this process.

Upcoming Events

Saturday October 18
1:00pm until 3:00pm
Fall Wine Show
Hillsborough, NC
Please RSVP on Facebook!

Sunday November 16
3rd Annual Carolina Ren Fest Meet Up
Huntersville, NC
Please RSVP on Facebook!

Saturday December 6
Winter International Lolita Day Tea
Durham, NC
Please RSVP on Facebook!

Jul. 16th, 2016


Our Facebook group

Apparently several days ago our Facebook group went missing. Along with several other Lolita comms that are also missing. We have reported this to Facebook and are waiting on a response. I know Soniabunny has been monitoring the page here and with our Facebook page being down I will keep an eye on this group more frequently as well. Please let us know if there are any questions or concerns regarding events or the NorthCarolita community in general.


Jun. 6th, 2016


Is this group still active?

I would like to go to meet ups but I don't know if this group is still active and I don't have a Facebook :(.

Jan. 15th, 2015



Joining the Facebook group.

Hello, I'm not sure how frequently this is checked but I thought I'd give posting something a shot. I'm planning on moving back to North Carolina from overseas soon and I would love to join the community. I sent a request to join the Facebook group about six months ago. I contacted two admins but haven't really gotten any sort of response back from either. I am unsure of whether my messages are being marked as spam or if I'm allowed to join the comm until I'm in the Carolinas or if I'm considered a "lurker" (I do actively dress in lolita and I'm a part of the local community where I am right now as well) or something else.

I'm really not sure who to contact at this point and I'm getting a little discouraged because I would really love to attend some meet ups.


Sep. 22nd, 2014


Waiting to join the FB group also!

Hi! I also have messaged a few of the admins introducing myself (I'm Arabelle by the way!) of the FB group but have yet to hear anything back,I'm hoping posting here will help! I'm excited to join! Thank you! ^^

Sep. 21st, 2014


Wanting to join the Facebook group

Hello! My name is Mikaela, and I've messaged a few of the admins of the Facebook group, but I haven't gotten a response yet. It looks like some others have gotten help by posting on here, so that's what I'm trying now. ^_^ I'm anxious to join, since I heard there's a meetup in October. Thanks in advance!

Mar. 10th, 2014


Help Facebook Mods Please

Hello. My name is Deidre. I applied to the carolitas group a week ago and sent an intro to two Admins, but for some reason I have received no response or approval.
I wear Lolita. I have for a while.
I just moved to Charlotte.
And I would like to attend meets to make new friends.
So, I'm not sure what the problem is...
Thanks in advance for any help or response!

Oct. 15th, 2013


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Okay everyone here we go.

Winter Lolita Day
Saturday December 7, 2013
Location: The Secret Tea Room
Time: 11:00-11:30am until
Cost per person $21.50 including tax and gratuity
Total spaces 21

Please comment below and I will message you payment information. All payments will be required to insure your seat and if I do not receive payment you will be removed from the list. If there are more than 21 people wishing to go there will be a wait list in case anyone drops before the deadline of October 31st. Being on the wait list does not guarantee you a seat.

Once the list is filled I will notify those attending of the tea choices and menu any other details. Any other questions please feel free to message me.


Oct. 14th, 2013


Winter Lolita Day Meetup in Greensboro

Location: Greensboro, NC
Date: Saturday December 7th

Everyone. I need a definite head count for those interested in coming to Greensboro for Lolita day on Saturday December 7th. The head count will dictate what we end up doing whether it be tea at a local tea room/hotel or visiting a local dessertery and socializing. I think we will hold off on Geeksboro at this time and revisit that option on a future date. I will mention if it is a tearoom there may be a payment required up front and are nonrefundable and I will have those details hopefully tomorrow. So raise your hand if you are thinking of coming.

Also after the meet if anyone is interested the Carousel Theatre off Battleground Ave in Greensboro will be showing the 3rd Madoka Magica movie as a one night event at 7pm.

Aug. 14th, 2013



Hi! I’m Charmeine, but I also go by Haley! I’m 18 years old, and I live in Raleigh. I’ve known the style for a long time, but I just started being a lolita about a year ago. If anyone saw a lolita in a wheelchair at Animazement...that was probably me! :) I’m walking right now for the time being though- yay!

And hmm...about me...I love crafts and baking from scratch! People tell me I make the most amazing cookies and icing ^^ And hm, my favorite brands are Angelic Pretty and Holleyteatime. :)

So yeah. I’m really excited to meet you all! I was so excited when I heard about this group! <3

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